A few practical points. Decide on personalisation early, since a date or names printed on the box adds a step to the order and needs lead time. Read any message back for spelling before you commit, because a printed error on an anniversary gift is a poor look. Allow extra time near Christmas, when a December anniversary competes with the busiest ordering window of the year.

A share bag suits the smaller, easier version of the same idea. It is right for a casual drop-in, for a flat rather than a house, or for a friend who would find a full hamper too much. It still says you thought about it, and it disappears happily over an evening rather than sitting on a shelf.

Wedding favours occupy an odd space. They should feel considered without dominating the budget, and ideally they earn a place in a guest's coat pocket rather than the bin. Chocolate manages both, provided you choose it with a little care.

One note on ingredients. If the recipient has asked about allergens or dietary detail, point them to the published product information rather than reassuring them yourself. It keeps things honest and accurate.

It helps to choose a maker whose product you trust. Lily O'Brien's chocolate O'Brien's has handcrafted chocolates in Newbridge, Co. Kildare since 1992, so the favours arrive as something guests recognise and are happy to keep. That recognition does quiet work at the table.

For the mid-range milestones, a tenth or a twentieth, the occasion earns a fuller collection. These are the anniversaries people tend to mark with a dinner or a small gathering, and a larger box suits both the moment and the room. Personalisation with the year or a couple's names lifts it from a nice box to a keepsake of a specific date.